Being confident around women is one thing that many men struggle with, but do not let that hinder you from meeting women. You miss the shots you never take, so as much as possible, you should start making a move before you regret it in the future. Once you can overcome your shyness, you can do anything without worrying what people say. Go from zero to hero and bring life to a party. So here are some sure ways that can help you be more confident around women.
Understand the root of the problem
First of all, you need to understand the underlying reason as to why you are shy. Are you shy in general, or are you only shy when around women? What kind of behaviors do you exhibit when around women? Knowing how you react and what caused these actions helps in addressing your shyness. Just some examples are hesitating to speak up during social interactions, talking too softly, not joining in any conversations, sweating, and talking too quickly. Albeit these are normal, frequent shyness may mean something more. You can try practicing with random strangers, or even hire paid escorts to help you in conversing with women and eventually improve your communication skills.
Once you are aware of the issue, you can now start slowly making a plan as to how to overcome this shyness and work on it gradually.
Give yourself a pep talk
Surely, confidence comes from within. In order to be confident, first of all, you need to believe in yourself. Try talking to the mirror and compliment your features. Be your own hype man and give yourself a pep talk every now and then. Highlighting your strengths and good features helps in building your confidence since you know that those are worth priding around others. While you share your good features, work on your current insecurities. Changing your internal monologue helps in changing how you view yourself in the long run. Instead of saying ‘I am a failure’, you should instead say ‘I am still worthy even if I make mistakes, and learn from them in order to do better’. Saying these helps you manifest a better version of yourself.
When you are shy and insecure, you tend to overanalyze almost everything your friends and strangers tell you. It bothers you and eventually eats you alive. Most of the time, the things that we overthink are not even true, which is just a waste of time. As much as possible, only take their comments at surface level and not overthink any underlying meaning of their words. If they needed to tell something, then they could have just told you directly. Make it a rule for yourself to not anticipate something unless and until confirmed to you by others
Practice, practice, practice
Even if you have applied what was listed above, but did not apply or even practice it to others, then what you have learned has no use. You can ask for friends of the opposite sex to help you practice. If you are too comfortable with them, then you can hire escorts to help you overcome your shyness. Don’t worry, almost everyone started somewhere when conquering their fears, and now they are out and about in the world.